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You Are Not Alone

The topic “You are not alone” says to me that you might need encouragement to know that you are not alone.


I enjoy my alone. Time alone is when my creative muse whispers in my ear. I get impulses or inspired to go somewhere or do something, always with surprising results. Like yesterday when I got the idea to go to Fred Meyers for your groceries and get a large skinny pumpkin spice latte.

I took the inspirational urge and went to the store to buy the latte and then spilled  it all over the floor. I looked around for someone to tell about the spill over by the sushi counter and I see a store employee approach me. Hey!  I say and then notice it is Linda, a woman who I knew 20 years ago and I say in surprise “Linda how is it going with you and she says ok kind of. …Well my sister..you see  I have to go to California, my sister is very sick, and is dying. I look into her eyes and see that this meeting was not accidental. She was feeling deep feelings and we were brought together because we are never alone.  

You are never ever alone and there is a reason for everything.

BUT  there is more..much more…

This quote by Christina Lauren sums it all up when she said,

I knew everything happened for a reason. I just wished the reason would hurry up and make itself known.” 

When you are feeling lonely that reason why things aren’t happening can seem very far away.

In the Law of Attraction world waiting is the allowing stage. The stage where you have to get out of your own way and allow the perfect situation that will take away your loneliness away.

That longing many be for different things:

  •  a perfect relationship

  • or something to happen that will make your life feel more worthwhile.

What ever it is that you are longing for there is always a gap between what you want and when it will show up on your doorstep.

It’s like this the speed at which your desires will manifest is in direct relationship to how much you allow during the gap time.

Think of it like this, if you are at a restaurant and order a dinner and then keep getting up and checking to see if the cook has started to cook your meal yet. You will find yourself not only delaying your meal but the restaurant personnel will not be looking at you in a happy way and it won’t take long before chaos breaks out.

Eight Tips carry you through the gap

  1. Chill and get your vibe as high as possible

  2. Find ways to love yourself, take a bubble bath, get your nails done, and get a massage.

  3. Get into motion, exercise, and volunteer to become a coach for a sport team.

  4. Get in the habit of appreciation. Challenge yourself to find something to appreciate 5 min. every hour. Appreciation is the same vibe as meditation.

  5. Let go of trying to figure out how the thing you want will look. If you keep insisting that your ideal mate will be tall, dark, and handsome and there is someone waiting on your life path that is short, blond, and rich he cannot get to you because you are putting up resistance by being too specific. *Note: you can get specific after your vibration is high enough but not in the beginning.

  6. Embrace your alone time it is easier to stay with good feeling thoughts if you are not around the masses. Enjoy your time of solitary confinement to let your creativity grow.

  7. Start with small steps that feel good. Anticipate how your new activities and friends will feel. You will notice events or activities that sound like fun and that you’d like to join.

  8. Love where you are. There is never a crowd on the leading edge. But hang on there is hope. Trust that you will find other like-minded people who share your vision.


Like the Peri10k group

Whose vision is?

To become the most inspirational community

Who love to collaborate with each other and create thought provoking content every day that uplifts the speakers and the viewers.  

You will definitely not be lonely in this creative group


1. To show the World that Collaboration is the best way to achieve personal growth and create magic and to demonstrate that we do not have to do ‘IT’ alone.

2. To share our gifts and stories and to inspire others to do the same.

3. To challenge each other be the best we can be by holding each other accountable and giving each other genuine constructive feedback. No holding hands!

4. To encourage each other to step outside of our comfort zone

5. To be the change we want to see in the World

In Conclusion, You are definitely not alone and your feeling alone may be your next most evolved step to new discovery and fun.  Embrace your feelings and let them guide you to discover what it is you really want in life and always trust you will have help to make your dreams come true.